How to Find the Conflict in a Story: Conflict Mapping and Other Writing Tips (2023)

One of the greatest challenges of writing better stories is knowing exactly which scenes to write. The best scenes focus on the core elements of conflict — which means before you can write amazing scenes, you have to find the central conflict in a story.

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You may have a great story idea in your head. But the specifics of it — which moments to capture — are unclear. The result is often writer’s block, or a story that feels “off,” meaning it isn’t focused on the right stuff.

That’s where Conflict Mapping can make your writing even better!

Strong scenes come from strong plans. And visualizing the types of conflict between your characters is a great way to do just that.

When Conflict in a Story Is Unclear

Conflict is essential to a strong story.

To give zest to your plot and move it forward, you need to integrate a type of conflict in every scene.

This can be seen as a moral conflict that sparks an internal struggle, or a force of external conflicts that threaten a character in a physical or other way.

Rarely does a story’s conflict magically appear in our minds. That’s because inspiration frequently comes from other sources: beauty, music, or situations. Rarely are we inspired by a focused sequence of events built around pursuing a goal (which is what a story is), because this tends to happen too quickly to note.

So when we sit down to write, we’re really just translating the image or idea we had into a word-picture.

Except those aren't major conflicts.

I experienced this in 2012 when I decided to write a murder mystery about a family in New Orleans. My wife and I even went on vacation there, staying just outside the French Quarter.

And while we saw a lot of beautiful things, heard some amazing music, and came up with many interesting situations, strong story conflict did not come to us as we sweated our way through the city.

How can we translate inspiration and ideas into clear conflict in a story?

Simple: Start by drawing two circles.

Conflict Map: Drawing a Relationship

To begin your Conflict Map, draw two empty circles. Then, connect them with arcing arrows, like this:

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Now, decide which two people are in a relationship in your story. You don’t need names. Just people. Mom and daughter? Boyfriend and girlfriend? Owner and dog?You decide.Just put something in there.

The point is that you are intentionally developing multiple characters in a a story, which gives you an opportunity to create conflict between people, particularly between one character and your protagonist.

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Once you've done this, on the arrow extending from a character’s bubble, write what they want from the other character. It can be physical (preferable) or non-physical (okay — but add something physical to go with it, like “affection = hug”).

Then, consider what the other character might want from the first. Write it on their arrow.

As you do this, consider traits that might be essential to each character. Jot them in the circles. This is the time to create without any fear or reservations.

And to keep it fear-free, do it in pencil so you can erase and alter to your heart’s delight!

Create 4 Relationships

According to Robert McKee, there are four character types that nearly every protagonist has a relationship with in most stories. Whenever I’m building a new story in a new world, I find this to be a fantastic starting place, and it’s what I did as I built the world of my New Orleans play.

The four character types to fill first, as you plan, are:

  1. Friend: What one might want from a friend? What does the exchange of goals look like in friendship?
  2. Authority: How does this relationship create benevolent and/or negative energy?
  3. Love: How does the protagonist think of, and possibly plan to, pursue their love interest?
  4. Enemy: Who opposes the protagonist? Is it direct opposition (contradicting the protagonist’s goal), or competitive (pursing the same or a similar goal)?

Once you’ve established what the protagonist wants from each of these characters, draw arrows connecting the characters to each other. What might the Authority want from the Friend? The Friend from the Love? And so on.

Not only does this give you more characters to work with, but it plants the seeds for plenty of conflict that will blossom into strong scenes. When characters are engaged in authentic relationships, the conflict between them occurs more naturally. It doesn't feel unclear, nor does it come out of nowhere.

So plan out two (or more) characters who want things from one another that cannot easily be given.

You can see my protagonist, Isabel’s, relationship with two of these characters below: the Friend (her adopted brother) and her Authority (her mother, Natasha). Note that I hadn't figured out Andre's goal, yet. This truly is a way to discover your protagonist's “world!”

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Add Goals and Go

When I was done with my Conflict Map, it was so big that my play couldn’t possibly contain all the characters and relationships. So I cut five of them!

Yet the map was invaluable for planning the relationships and conflict I would need to make the story work. It gave me the seeds of great, dramatic scenes.

And the result was a fun, thrilling play that surprised everyone with its authentic conflict.

There is one thing I didn’t do, though, that I highly recommend you do: Add action verbs to each character’s goal. There’s a big difference between an Enemy who chooses to “annihilate” to get their goal, versus one who “humiliates.”

My protagonist, a bride-to-be, chose to “soothe” her overbearing mother in order to get her goal of “genuine love and approval. The play would have been much different if she chose to blame, lie, or ignore. Verbs matter, and they can help you as you craft these crucial scenes.

You can check out a large view of my final map here. It’s a mess—four pieces of paper taped together and scanned into the computer in three batches.

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Every Story Needs Conflict

Conflict is crucial in a plot and between characters and other forces, like the environment, that challenge the protagonist.

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To help you come up with conflict, turn to your planning process. Remember, this is supposed to be messy, not a perfect, finished product. A well-executed plan can lead to a wonderful final product.

Whether or not the main conflict in your scene is internal conflict or minor characters blocking your protagonist and their pursuit of their scene goals, or other external obstacles standing in their way, engaging conflicts will advance a plot and keep your readers engaged.

To plan and implement conflict into your story, give Character Mapping a try. And watch as your story get stronger right away!

How do you find the conflict in a story?Let us know in the comments.

PRACTICE

Take fifteen minutes to draft a character map for your protagonist’s four “world” characters: Friend, Authority, Love, and Enemy. Make sure arrows go out from each character to the others, identifying what each wants in each relationship. Then, add action verbs that describe how each character will go about getting what he/she wants.

In the practice box below,summarize one of these relationships by sharing what each character wants from the other, and what they plan to do to get it.

When you're done, be sure to leave feedback for your fellow writers in the comments!

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FAQs

How do you find conflict in a story? ›

How to Identify a Conflict Within a Story
  1. Identify the protagonist of the story. This is the main character, who the story revolves around.
  2. Find out what the protagonist's goal is. The protagonist's goal is usually revealed in the first act of a story. ...
  3. Identify what or who is coming between the protagonist and his goal.

What is the conflict in the story answer? ›

Conflict in a story is a struggle between opposing forces. Characters must act to confront those forces and there is where conflict is born. If there is nothing to overcome, there is no story. Conflict in a story creates and drives the plot forward.

What are the 5 conflicts found in stories? ›

5 Types of Conflict
  • Man vs. Self. This type of conflict is usually caused by something external — but the battle itself takes place within. ...
  • Man vs. Man. ...
  • Man vs. Nature. ...
  • Man vs. Society. ...
  • Man vs. Supernatural.
14 Sept 2021

What are the 3 Conflicts in a story? ›

The basic types of conflict in fiction have been commonly codified as "man against man", "man against nature", and "man against self." Although frequently cited, these three types of conflict are not universally accepted.

What is a conflict in a story map? ›

In literature and film, conflict is a clash between two opposing forces that creates the narrative thread for a story. Conflict occurs when the main character struggles with either an external conflict or an internal conflict. There are six different types of conflict you can use to propel your story: 1. Character vs.

What is a conflict of a story example? ›

For example, if the protagonist is fighting his or her government, or is accused of a crime he or she didn't commit, these would be examples of Man vs. Society as conflict. If a protagonist is going against the grain of what his or her society and people expect, this is also an example of Man vs. Society conflict.

What are the 4 types of conflicts? ›

The opposing force created, the conflict within the story generally comes in four basic types: Conflict with the self, Conflict with others, Conflict with the environment and Conflict with the supernatural.

How do you handle conflict Example answer? ›

“When faced with a conflict, I like to ask questions and understand my coworker's perspective. This helps keep the situation calm, helps them feel like they're being heard, and after this, I've found it's much easier to come to an agreement or compromise while both staying a lot calmer.”

What are the 6 types of conflict? ›

Many stories contain multiple types of conflict, but there is usually one that is the main focus.
  • Character vs. Self. ...
  • Character vs. Character. ...
  • Character vs. Nature. ...
  • Character vs. Supernatural. ...
  • Character vs. Technology. ...
  • Character vs. Society.
29 Sept 2021

What is a good conflict for a story? ›

6 conflicts types in stories:

Person versus nature. Person versus self. Person versus society. Person versus the supernatural.

What are the 6 conflict styles? ›

Understanding Conflict Handling Styles
  • Competing. Value of own issue/goal: High. Value of relationship: Low. ...
  • Accommodating. Value of own issue/goal: Low. Value relationship: High. ...
  • Avoiding. Value of own issue/goal: Low. ...
  • Compromising. Value of own issue/goal: Medium. ...
  • Collaborating. Value of own issue/goal: High.

How do you start a conflict? ›

To create true conflict, two things are needed: a want and an obstacle. Your protagonist must want something, and there must be an obstacle (the antagonist) that's trying to stop her from getting what she wants (Ahab wants to kill the whale, the whale wants to kill Ahab).

How do you write a conflict in writing? ›

How to Add Conflict to Your Novel
  1. Figure Out What Your Character Cares About.
  2. Put an Obstacle Between Your Character and Their Goal.
  3. Force the Protagonist to Betray Themselves.
  4. Create an Antagonist.
  5. Push The Protagonist and Antagonist Together.
  6. Raise the Stakes.
  7. Make It Tense.
  8. Pace the Conflict.
29 Mar 2021

Do all stories need a conflict? ›

Conflict is necessary for all stories. It doesn't matter what kind of story it is — novel, short story, mystery, romance, thriller, children's, adult — it will always need conflict. In order to keep the plot interesting and exciting, some type of conflict must be there.

How do you write a story map? ›

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How many types of conflicts are there? ›

In particular, three types of conflict are common in organizations: task conflict, relationship conflict, and value conflict.

Why is it important to identify the conflict in a story? ›

Conflict is important in a story because it provides suspense, drives the plot, and develops the characters. Without conflict, the reader would have no reason to keep turning the page. Conflict also allows the writer to explore difficult topics and to create sympathy for the characters.

How do you use conflict in a sentence? ›

Employees already are in conflict with management over job cuts. The two companies came into conflict. The National Security Council has met to discuss ways of preventing a military conflict. There is a conflict between what they are doing and what you want.

What is conflict statement? ›

A conflict statement is a sentence that briefly states what the main character wants and what is preventing him/her from attaining that desire.

How do you analyze conflict in literature? ›

The analysis of a conflict in a literary work must start with the identification of the characters that are deeply involved in a conflict, their relationships, the nature of their conflicts, and the problem which opposes them. That is, the reader will find answer to the questions: Who are involved in the conflict?

What is the most common type of conflict in a story? ›

Character. Possibly the most common of all types of conflict found in literature is to have two (or more) characters opposed to one another. This typically occurs between a story's protagonist and antagonist, though this is not always the case.

What are 7 tips of resolving conflict? ›

Learn about some practical strategies you can use to handle conflict in the workplace.
  • Talk with the other person. ...
  • Focus on behavior and events, not on personalities. ...
  • Listen carefully. ...
  • Identify points of agreement and disagreement. ...
  • Prioritize the areas of conflict. ...
  • Develop a plan to work on each conflict.
5 Jan 2018

How do you resolve conflict? ›

Some Ways to Resolve Conflicts
  1. Talk directly. Assuming that there is no threat of physical violence, talk directly to the person with whom you have the problem. ...
  2. Choose a good time. ...
  3. Plan ahead. ...
  4. Don't blame or name-call. ...
  5. Give information. ...
  6. Listen. ...
  7. Show that you are listening. ...
  8. Talk it all through.

How do you handle conflict? ›

Tips for Managing Conflict
  1. Accept conflict. Remember that conflict is natural and happens in every ongoing relationship. ...
  2. Be a calming agent. ...
  3. Listen actively. ...
  4. Analyze the conflict. ...
  5. Model neutral language. ...
  6. Separate the person from the problem. ...
  7. Work together. ...
  8. Agree to disagree.

What questions do you need to ask to resolve a conflict? ›

Questions to Ask Yourself
  • What good is this conflict doing me?
  • Who will I be without it?
  • What will happen / won't happen if I let it go?
  • What emotions am I experiencing about it?
  • What do I need to forgive?
  • How will I know when the conflict is over?
  • What power does this conflict have over me?
20 Jun 2019

What are the sources of conflicts? ›

There are five main causes of conflict: information conflicts, values conflicts, interest conflicts, relationship conflicts, and structural conflicts. Information conflicts arise when people have different or insufficient information, or disagree over what data is relevant.

What are main conflicts? ›

Five of the seven types of conflicts are of the external kind.
  • Person vs. Person. Also called man vs. ...
  • Person vs. Nature. ...
  • Person vs. Society. ...
  • Person vs. Technology. ...
  • Person vs. Supernatural. ...
  • Person vs. Self. ...
  • Person vs. Destiny (Fate/Luck/God)
7 Aug 2020

Why Must conflict be solved? ›

When conflict is resolved effectively, it leads to many benefits, such as accomplishing goals and strengthening relationships. But conflict can also be damaging. If handled ineffectively, conflict can quickly turn into personal dislike, and even lead to a breakdown of relationships.

What is a theme in a story? ›

A literary theme is the main idea or underlying meaning a writer explores in a novel, short story, or other literary work. The theme of a story can be conveyed using characters, setting, dialogue, plot, or a combination of all of these elements.

What are the 4 steps to manage conflict? ›

4 steps To resolve Conflict: CARE
  1. Communicate. Open communication is key in a dispute. ...
  2. Actively Listen. Listen to what the other person has to say, without interrupting. ...
  3. Review Options. Talk over the options, looking for solutions that benefit everyone. ...
  4. End with a Win-Win Solution.
13 Mar 2017

What are the 5 conflict types? ›

According to the Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI), used by human resource (HR) professionals around the world, there are five major styles of conflict management—collaborating, competing, avoiding, accommodating, and compromising.

What are the 5 conflict resolution strategies explain in detail with examples? ›

Kenneth Thomas and Ralph Kilmann developed five conflict resolution strategies that people use to handle conflict, including avoiding, defeating, compromising, accommodating, and collaborating. This is based on the assumption that people choose how cooperative and how assertive to be in a conflict.

What are the 4 types of conflict? ›

The opposing force created, the conflict within the story generally comes in four basic types: Conflict with the self, Conflict with others, Conflict with the environment and Conflict with the supernatural.

What is the most common type of conflict in a story? ›

Character. Possibly the most common of all types of conflict found in literature is to have two (or more) characters opposed to one another. This typically occurs between a story's protagonist and antagonist, though this is not always the case.

What is the main source of conflict for the main characters? ›

To create conflict for your protagonist, you'll need forces of antagonism that work against them. In genre writing, antagonists are usually arch-villains, but they don't have to be people—they can be any oppositional element that thwarts your character's main desire.

How do you write a conflict? ›

How to Add Conflict to Your Novel
  1. Figure Out What Your Character Cares About.
  2. Put an Obstacle Between Your Character and Their Goal.
  3. Force the Protagonist to Betray Themselves.
  4. Create an Antagonist.
  5. Push The Protagonist and Antagonist Together.
  6. Raise the Stakes.
  7. Make It Tense.
  8. Pace the Conflict.
29 Mar 2021

How do you analyze conflict in literature? ›

The analysis of a conflict in a literary work must start with the identification of the characters that are deeply involved in a conflict, their relationships, the nature of their conflicts, and the problem which opposes them. That is, the reader will find answer to the questions: Who are involved in the conflict?

Can you name the type of conflict? ›

Different types of conflict — including task conflict, relationship conflict, and value conflict—can benefit from different approaches to conflict resolution. In the workplace, it sometimes seems as if some types of conflict are always with us.

What is a good conflict for a story? ›

6 conflicts types in stories:

Person versus nature. Person versus self. Person versus society. Person versus the supernatural.

What are the sources of conflicts? ›

There are five main causes of conflict: information conflicts, values conflicts, interest conflicts, relationship conflicts, and structural conflicts. Information conflicts arise when people have different or insufficient information, or disagree over what data is relevant.

What are main conflicts? ›

Five of the seven types of conflicts are of the external kind.
  • Person vs. Person. Also called man vs. ...
  • Person vs. Nature. ...
  • Person vs. Society. ...
  • Person vs. Technology. ...
  • Person vs. Supernatural. ...
  • Person vs. Self. ...
  • Person vs. Destiny (Fate/Luck/God)
7 Aug 2020

Can you write a story without conflict? ›

We use conflict, such as obstacles and setbacks, to reveal our characters: their priorities, fears, growth, etc. Their successes and failures reflect on them and make readers invested in the story. But that's not the only way to tell stories. In fact, some stories contain no conflict at all.

Do all stories need to have a conflict? ›

Conflict is necessary for all stories. It doesn't matter what kind of story it is — novel, short story, mystery, romance, thriller, children's, adult — it will always need conflict. In order to keep the plot interesting and exciting, some type of conflict must be there.

Why Must conflict be solved? ›

When conflict is resolved effectively, it leads to many benefits, such as accomplishing goals and strengthening relationships. But conflict can also be damaging. If handled ineffectively, conflict can quickly turn into personal dislike, and even lead to a breakdown of relationships.

Do conflicts always involve two or more people? ›

In broad terms, conflict happens when two or more people disagree. You might experience verbal conflict, such as an argument, or nonverbal conflict, which might involve someone turning their back or walking away from you. No matter how conflict shakes out, you can identify it as one of these six types.

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